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No - it took us only 2 months to conceive her We had a miscarriage before her and that also took 2 months , so it taking so long really took me by surprise. There were probably 3-4 months in there we didn't track or try as hard just due to life circumstances but still. No tests yet as doctors won't see you until it's been a year and we've just hit that, with covid everywhere is slow and backed up and my husband thinks it's all up to fate and won't be tested. I may go get some blood work myself to see if I'm ok. I have a condition (half of a uterus basically) that is somewhat common to have secondary infertility so I am a bit worried for that. Hoping that we have success soon and it's just one of those things that took longer for whatever reason, I know it can be normal.@Alligator - did it take you a long time to conceive your first child? Have you ever had any tests done?
I feel your pain- we are about to hit the 5 year mark. Although I don’t ovulate by myself so unless it’s a cycle where we are actively having fertility treatment we know we have no chance and so no pressure!