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Omg hun I am so so sorry :cry: I was so hopeful that it was all a big miscalculation. Ugh. My heart hurts for you so much :hugs: :hugs:
 
thencomesbebe said:
So I got the run around at the doctor's office. There was some kind of misunderstanding and they don't want to release my hcg numbers to me without ALSO releasing the other two tests (the chromosomal/gender test and a carrier test) which take wayyyy longer. The nurse/midwife promised me she would release the hcg numbers today, but I guess she didn't communicate that with ANYONE. I'm so close to just looking for a new doctor....who I haven't even seen. Omg.
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I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending love x
 
Weird update, still totally shocked. I thought the pregnancy ended because that's what my doctor's office confirmed for me, but the miscarriage wasn't really progressing even though I was having some pink-red blood/spotting with some clots. So I went to the ER yesterday, I was there from 2pm-7:30pm. They found the fetus, measured it at 3.3mm, HR 107. And my HCG rose, but only by like 411. It went from 5890 to 6301. They think the yolk sac is a little on the large side but they didn't tell me how large. They were baffled by my hcg results. So, still may be non-viable, which I'm at peace with, but I honestly wasn't expecting those results. I'm going to make some calls today and try and get an appointment with a new ob
 
thencomesbebe said:
Weird update, still totally shocked. I thought the pregnancy ended because that's what my doctor's office confirmed for me, but the miscarriage wasn't really progressing even though I was having some pink-red blood/spotting with some clots. So I went to the ER yesterday, I was there from 2pm-7:30pm. They found the fetus, measured it at 3.3mm, HR 107. And my HCG rose, but only by like 411. It went from 5890 to 6301. They think the yolk sac is a little on the large side but they didn't tell me how large. They were baffled by my hcg results. So, still may be non-viable, which I'm at peace with, but I honestly wasn't expecting those results. I'm going to make some calls today and try and get an appointment with a new ob
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OMG this is such a rollercoaster. I’m sorry you are going through this. I think sometimes not knowing is even worse than getting bad news. I do hope you get an answer soon :hugs:
 
Wow, rollercoaster is an understatement. I don’t know what to make of that at all. Definitely good news that there’s been a fetal pole found because hcg going up and down is usually an indicator of ectopic. That’s how mine was first suspected. Gosh. I hope you get some clarity soon love, I can’t imagine the stress it’s putting on you :hugs:
 
I have found another doctor, I go tomorrow, but I feel like I'm still bleeding a lot. I guess based off what I've read I'm technically spotting, because it's not filling a pad, but I have passed a few blood clots, although no tissue. I haven't had any cramping at all. I won't be surprised with whatever the results of my check up tomorrow are. At this point I feel like it could go either way.
 
Ok well hopefully this new doctor has some freaking compassion either way! Still hoping there’s somehow a good outcome, but also completely understand protecting your heart too :hugs:
 
My sister in law is a doctor and has some experience with this sort of thing and she still thinks we might have a good outcome, especially with my hcg levels suddenly going in the right direction, so I do have hope!
 
I wonder if you had a vanishing twin?! That might explain the slight hcg drop and then rise again!! Also the spotting could be explained by that too. Roll on tomorrow!
 
It will definitely be interesting to see where this is headed, I had a nice talk with hubby and he said that if this pregnancy doesn't progress, we should take it as a sign to go back to our fertility specialist for an IUI. Dang I love that man. He really knows how to put my anxiety at ease.
 
thencomesbebe said:
It will definitely be interesting to see where this is headed, I had a nice talk with hubby and he said that if this pregnancy doesn't progress, we should take it as a sign to go back to our fertility specialist for an IUI. Dang I love that man. He really knows how to put my anxiety at ease.
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How did it go? :telephone:
 
I went to the doctor, and saw babe for the last time. No heartbeat, I passed her a few hours later on my own. Her gestational sac came out perfectly formed. (I feel in my heart she was a girl.) My husband and I went to the beach at sunset and gave her a burial at sea. Sending my love to all of you for happy, healthy pregnancies and sweet take home babies. Xxoo

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