hi everyone. I am new to the thread my name is lulama but everyone calls me Lulz. i am 17 and i am a mom to a beautiful baby girl named Imi which is short for Imenathi'inkosi which means the lord is with us. I'm from South Africa in a city called Nelson Mandela Bay. My daughter is almost three months old and she is amazing, everyday she finds new ways to amaze me. I joined this blog because i really wanted people to talk to. Out here once you mention that you're 17 and a mom you get shunned, and i feel like my friends dont really understand me now because my priorities have changed, my daughter's father and i are no longer together but we remain with each other. The other thing which is really stressful is that Imi is biracial, i'm black and her dad is white and our families just dont get along at all which is one of we broke up. Sometimes i just want to scream!!!!!!!!!