Hi ladies,
I went and saw one of my midwives today, expecting she would write me a note to apply for sick leave. She said I wouldn't qualify for sick leave with my symptoms. I asked her what I should do then, as I don't feel like I can do my job anymore. I asked her what she would do, and she said that she's not a good person to ask, because she would just push through to the end. Thanks lady. That makes me feel real good about my efforts (not!).
So here's my situation....
I have a very physical job (I massage for a living). The last 3 weeks I have pushed through feeling horrible at work. My last shift I canceled my last client because I physically couldn't do it.
I don't have any diagnosed issues with my pregnancy (like hypertension or whatever), but when I work I start to feel really ill (shaky, weak, light-headed, and exhausted) soon into my work. The midwife suggested I need to try doing things to make work less taxing, but I explained to her that I've already been doing that since the beginning of my pregnancy! I only work twice a week, I take an hour break at work and have 15 minutes between each client. I snack and eat things to make sure my blood sugar stays level. And I see a chiro and massage therapist regularly to keep my body in OK condition. I believe all these things have helped me to be able to work to to 29 weeks OK, but I'm seriously at the end of my working rope here. I get so exhausted and weak that the days after I work I am totally useless and can't do anything.
I have gotten to the point where I cannot do my job properly, or of I do it properly, I'm so spent that I can't massage my next client.
Not to mention that my last pregnancy I had an irritable uterus and am trying to prevent that this time.
What do you think? Do my symptoms constitute sick leave?
I'm kind of just thinking of going to the walk-in clinic tomorrow to ask a doctor to write me a note. I just feel super deflated because it's not like I wanted to just take sick leave and cancel my regular clients. The midwife made me feel like I was being a wimp....like she would just push through no matter what, and my symptoms don't mean much. My husband has been telling me for a month that I need to go on sick leave (I often call him half way through my shift while I'm lying on the massage bed wondering if I can actually do another treatment). After my last shift that I had to end early I finally admitted that I can't do my job anymore.
I just needed to vent this more than anything. I'm not impressed with my midwife's lack of understanding and concern for mine and my baby's health.
Positive insight would be much appreciated!
I went and saw one of my midwives today, expecting she would write me a note to apply for sick leave. She said I wouldn't qualify for sick leave with my symptoms. I asked her what I should do then, as I don't feel like I can do my job anymore. I asked her what she would do, and she said that she's not a good person to ask, because she would just push through to the end. Thanks lady. That makes me feel real good about my efforts (not!).
So here's my situation....
I have a very physical job (I massage for a living). The last 3 weeks I have pushed through feeling horrible at work. My last shift I canceled my last client because I physically couldn't do it.
I don't have any diagnosed issues with my pregnancy (like hypertension or whatever), but when I work I start to feel really ill (shaky, weak, light-headed, and exhausted) soon into my work. The midwife suggested I need to try doing things to make work less taxing, but I explained to her that I've already been doing that since the beginning of my pregnancy! I only work twice a week, I take an hour break at work and have 15 minutes between each client. I snack and eat things to make sure my blood sugar stays level. And I see a chiro and massage therapist regularly to keep my body in OK condition. I believe all these things have helped me to be able to work to to 29 weeks OK, but I'm seriously at the end of my working rope here. I get so exhausted and weak that the days after I work I am totally useless and can't do anything.
I have gotten to the point where I cannot do my job properly, or of I do it properly, I'm so spent that I can't massage my next client.
Not to mention that my last pregnancy I had an irritable uterus and am trying to prevent that this time.
What do you think? Do my symptoms constitute sick leave?
I'm kind of just thinking of going to the walk-in clinic tomorrow to ask a doctor to write me a note. I just feel super deflated because it's not like I wanted to just take sick leave and cancel my regular clients. The midwife made me feel like I was being a wimp....like she would just push through no matter what, and my symptoms don't mean much. My husband has been telling me for a month that I need to go on sick leave (I often call him half way through my shift while I'm lying on the massage bed wondering if I can actually do another treatment). After my last shift that I had to end early I finally admitted that I can't do my job anymore.
I just needed to vent this more than anything. I'm not impressed with my midwife's lack of understanding and concern for mine and my baby's health.
Positive insight would be much appreciated!