Sander
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I mean I was hoping for a girl, but I’m dealing with a lot less gender disappointment this time. With my second son I could barely look at his ultrasound pictures, I put them all away. Which is awful because he’s the sweetest loveliest baby.
I actually think it’s because of him that I’m doing as well as I am. He showed me that every boy is completely different, and he’s just so snuggly and calm - I could have 100 more of him haha.
We were planning on this being our last though. Now I’m not sure. It’s hard to give up on the idea of a girl. I was already struggling when I imagined being done with babies, but I figured if this was a girl it would be easier to call it quits. Now I’m feeling like we’d like to take a break for a couple years - these 3 boys will be 2.5 years apart total. Maybe when this littlest one is two we’d think about a 4th
I actually think it’s because of him that I’m doing as well as I am. He showed me that every boy is completely different, and he’s just so snuggly and calm - I could have 100 more of him haha.
We were planning on this being our last though. Now I’m not sure. It’s hard to give up on the idea of a girl. I was already struggling when I imagined being done with babies, but I figured if this was a girl it would be easier to call it quits. Now I’m feeling like we’d like to take a break for a couple years - these 3 boys will be 2.5 years apart total. Maybe when this littlest one is two we’d think about a 4th