ElmoBumpToBe
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Hi all, posting this in here just as I know more people who get me will read it. We have three wonderful boys and are finding out if we are having our 4th boy or 1st girl on Friday. We are having our 4th because we wanted another BABY not because we wanted to try for a girl, this is something it seems that people just can't grasp. They presume no matter how much you correct them all that you are trying for a girl. Don't get me wrong I have always wanted a girl and I did feel very upset when I found out my third son was another boy, but even if you had guaranteed me that this baby would have been a boy before conception we still would have desperately wanted him! It took nearly two years to conceive after a vasectomy reversal and because of that I had come to a point where I couldn't have cared less if we had another boy I just wanted another child so badly, it was such a relief for the first few months of the pregnant to not give a toss wether or not we had boy or girl, but the more people are going on about it the more the old feelings are returning and I'm starting to get scared at my reaction on Friday if we are having another boy (which I think we probably are) I just need people to stop with the unwanted comments, I know they mean well but I politely try to stop them and they carry on, "oh yea I know you aren't bothered but I do hope you get a girl"
"Aw you NEED to have a girl"
"And are you going to finally have a girl this time?"
It just never stops!!
I'll be glad when every single person I am even mildly aquinated with knows that we are having a boy and the comments can stop - hopefully!!
Sonographer at 13 weeks said if he "had to say, and if we weren't in the room then maybe the parts are looking boyish"
So although nothing is certain, I think maybe I have been kidding myself thinking that we could be having our only daughter.
I ADORE my boys I'm just so so sad at people acting like boys are a huge dissapointment. If they could be just as excited about another little baby boy then I'm sure I could too.
Thanks for reading bit of a rant really but think I needed to put it somewhere X
"Aw you NEED to have a girl"
"And are you going to finally have a girl this time?"
It just never stops!!
I'll be glad when every single person I am even mildly aquinated with knows that we are having a boy and the comments can stop - hopefully!!
Sonographer at 13 weeks said if he "had to say, and if we weren't in the room then maybe the parts are looking boyish"
So although nothing is certain, I think maybe I have been kidding myself thinking that we could be having our only daughter.
I ADORE my boys I'm just so so sad at people acting like boys are a huge dissapointment. If they could be just as excited about another little baby boy then I'm sure I could too.
Thanks for reading bit of a rant really but think I needed to put it somewhere X