Pregnant again after 3 chemicals

Hello...I'm 40 years old and am pregnant for the 3rd time this year. My other 2 pregnancies were chemicals right before 5 weeks so I'm a little freaked out. I also had a chemical last May and we have 5 children ages 4 through 11 with an early miscarriage before our youngest. So my fertility hasn't dropped but these last few babies don't want to stick and it's heartbreaking even though we haven't been trying for more children. I'm not quite 4 weeks along and this next week will be nerve wracking. I will either be bleeding in a week or thinking about preparing for a baby at 41 along with all the things that come with (needing a bigger van, etc). Either thought makes me nervous but once there's life inside of me, I always prefer it to stay there. Any other mom's going through a similar experience?

Suggerhoney said:

Hi love
Was just wondering how u are. I was 40 in 2020 and we was ttc. I fell pregnant 4 times in the April, June, July and October and all ended in chemical pregnancies.

I had had 2 chemicals and a miscarriage at 10+4 weeks in past but had never suffered multiple loss until I was 40.
My age got the blame and I was at breaking point then on cycle 11 ( I had just turned 41) and I fell with my now 1 year old son.
His pregnancy was taken over by worry and anxiety.

I’m now 42 (43 in December) and we have been trying for 6 cycles now. I had a chemical in April and then a miscarriage just over 5 weeks in June.
I pray we get our take home rainbow one day.
But I know I’ll be a nervous wreck. Just wanted to share my story with you so you know your not alone.

I really hope this is ure sticky.

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I'm so sorry about your losses! I hope you will get your rainbow too. My sister just had one at age 43. I'm almost 12 weeks along now and found out it's a girl!! I'm very happy about this because we have only one girl out of our 5 children. I'm super happy to have made it this far and think I will be delivering a triple rainbow baby in February.

Thank you all