Secondary infertility?

tropicsgirl

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Hello ladies,

I’m wondering if anyone has has a similar situation like mine.

DH and I had our daughter over 6 years ago. It took us 13 months to conceive her. The month we conceived her I don’t recall doing anything special or different. I had convinced myself I could have kids because I didn’t get a single positive test and then all of a sudden we were pregnant!

fast forward, we decide in February 2020 that we wanted to try for a 2nd child. It’s been over a year now and nothing. Not a single positive test. I’m not overly worried because it did take us over a year for my daughter, but I’m stating to get a bit anxious. I am 32, fairly healthy and DH is 37. The only thing is I have gained 30 pounds since I had my daughter.

I did see my OBGYN and she’s having me get my egg quality tested. I could never afford doing IUI or IVF.

The older my daughter gets, the more I want her to have a sibling. I’ve started doing acupuncture and taking vitamins. Also trying to exercise more. I think some of it may be stress, but I have a feeling it’s more than that too.

we have also been using OPKs since June 2020. I was optimistic those would help since I didn’t use them to conceive my first! But nothing.

just feeling a bit depressed about it...but trying to stay optimistic. I don’t want to get too worried about it as I know that won’t help matters.
 
the journey sometimes takes time, stay positive and don't give up. Good luck
 
Hi! Each of my babies have taken longer to conceive. My 1st we fell pregnant on month 1! 2nd month 7, and 3rd took a full 12 months. I felt like that was such a long time. It then took us 2.5 years to fall pregnant with number 4. After 2 years I started opks and found that I was only getting 6 days between ovulation and my period which simply isn't enough to conceive. I took vitamin b6 to extend it and fell pregnant after 6 months. With number 5 I fell pregnant 7 months in and suffered a miscarriage, it was another 2 years 11 months with not even a hint of a line on a test before I fell pregnant again. So total of 3.5 years to get him.
We've now been ttc since July 2020 and nothing so far. It's really hard going. It's tough on the heart and the mind, but I did get babies at the end of it all so it is possible.
 

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