Pregnant after sleeping with two guys

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I recently found out that I was pregnant & I had sex with guy #1 on August 21st ( we only used pull out method ) then had sex with my now partner, guy #2, August 23rd up to today, and we use no protection & he did not “pull out” on the 23rd either. My due date is May 20th 2021 & my conception date is considered August 27th. I just am asking if someone could help out with their opinions. My periods were regular, 28 days & I had them 5 days out of the month as well.
 
If you ovulated on the 27th, its most likely that your current partner is the dad, especially since he did not pull out. But if your dates are off even a day or two, it can put the first person in the mix as well. When was the first day of your last period? Do you track ovulation at all to know if you ovulate on a typical schedule (CD14)? There isn't any real way to know until you can get a DNA test done. But if your O date is right, I would say there is a more than likely chance it is your current partner.
 
If you ovulated on the 27th, its most likely that your current partner is the dad, especially since he did not pull out. But if your dates are off even a day or two, it can put the first person in the mix as well. When was the first day of your last period? Do you track ovulation at all to know if you ovulate on a typical schedule (CD14)? There isn't any real way to know until you can get a DNA test done. But if your O date is right, I would say there is a more than likely chance it is your current partner.

The first day of my last period was August 13th and by “O date” are you meaning ovulation? Thank you so much for responding. It truly means a lot!
 
Yes, I mean ovulation :)

There is always the possibility that you ovulated early. Even a day earlier would technically put the first person in the running as sperm can live up to 5 days, though most have an average of 3 days. Some men have semen in pre-cum so even though he pulled out, technically there could be a chance (I don't think it's common though for men to have this, but not impossible). I think the most likely and logical father is your partner, but unfortunately there isn't a way to definitively know until baby is born.

You're very welcome! I know this can all be overwhelming and scary but things will work out!
 
Yes, I mean ovulation :)

There is always the possibility that you ovulated early. Even a day earlier would technically put the first person in the running as sperm can live up to 5 days, though most have an average of 3 days. Some men have semen in pre-cum so even though he pulled out, technically there could be a chance (I don't think it's common though for men to have this, but not impossible). I think the most likely and logical father is your partner, but unfortunately there isn't a way to definitively know until baby is born.

You're very welcome! I know this can all be overwhelming and scary but things will work out!

Well I thank you once again so much for the help & kind words as well! We’re hoping for the best, but it’s a little scary like you’d mentioned ❤️! Have a great rest of your night!
 
Hello, I am sorry I am also going through the same problem and I haven't been able to sleep for 3 days now please help me . I have missed my period on day 5 now . i had sex with guy #1 last day of my safe days where I had 4 days of “maybe fertile” I did not take any pills. That was 27th of Dec. and also had sex with guy #2 on 29th of Dec and also never took any pills which was 3 days to my fertile day and then slept with guy #1 on 2nd of January and took pills 48 hrs later... please help me if am pregnant who could be the father so that I can have the courage of approaching them both? Please help am going through a hard time now
 
I recently found out that I was pregnant & I had sex with guy #1 on August 21st ( we only used pull out method ) then had sex with my now partner, guy #2, August 23rd up to today, and we use no protection & he did not “pull out” on the 23rd either. My due date is May 20th 2021 & my conception date is considered August 27th. I just am asking if someone could help out with their opinions. My periods were regular, 28 days & I had them 5 days out of the month as well.

Hello,

I am just going to tell you my story quick. I had sex with my boyfriend one day, sex with a one night stand the next day, and sex again with my boyfriend. I ended up getting pregnant. After my son was born we did a paternity test and you would think it would have been my boyfriend's child because of when we had sex, but sadly it was the one night stand's sperm that fertilized my egg. So if I were you I would wait until the baby is here and do a paternity test to find out. Oh and just so you are aware my boyfriend ended up marrying me and we had just celebrated our 24th wedding anniversary on January 16th.

Good luck to you! I hope everything works out the way you want it to!
 
I'm sorry but there is no way to know unless you get a DNA test done. You had sex with both men too close together to determine who is really the father. Sperm can live inside of you for 5 days and all it takes is one to get you pregnant. Good luck though, I hope you get the results you are hoping for<3
 


The only way to know for sure is a dna test
 

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